growing up

before i make my way towards 21, many had told me that time will zoooooommmm pass in a flash from the time u start turning 21.....

i never thought what they said can be so true....

im already starting to hear the word 'marriage' .........friends around me are planning to get married, while some are already being binded by the vows (some are shot-gun marriages) ....

just dont know why....hearing such stuff actually scares me a little.....for god's sake, im only 22.........but i guess all these are part of growing up....

im not saying that marriages are a bad thing.....though it really makes me wonder if they are really in love to be getting married at such young age.....in fact, most of them are just below 25......

the truth is when i was much younger, i had that kind of thoughts as well.....to find someone i really love, get married, have children, marry young and live happily ever after....i was only 19 or 20 then....sounds like a perfect fairy tale out of the books ya....but then, i have come to believe that age does play a part in moulding one's mentality.....though i know it's part and parcel of one's course of life....but marriages to me now do not seem as important anymore.....

however, on the other hand.....it's always hard to determine cause things might change......and who knows, it might change my mind too....haha....